7 Steps For Getting Your Ex Back
Are you SURE you want her back?
Its normal to want what you cant have, and to be attracted to someone who rejects you. You may miss her presence during those empty spaces in your day. But none of this means shes the right person for you.
Understand the situation
Some men who have been dumped think that if only they could just talk to her, they could work things out and get back together. This is delusional. Its her perception of you that needs to change.
Keep some distance from her. Let her perception of you lose its sharpness and focus. The more time goes by, the more shell forget about the things she didnt like about being with you.
Become the man she wouldnt have broken up with. If you know why she left you, then address those aspects of your personality.
Get better with women IN GENERAL
Most of what attracts or repels a woman is your body language, confidence, etc. If youre still in the mindset that shes the best you can do, then these indicators are likely to subtly but powerfully keep her away. Also, women are attracted to men who other women like.
Find some neutral pretext to see her somewhere where you can accidentally bump into her, or find something of hers that she left at your place, for example.
When you see her, have fun, but dont push for anything or talk about your previous relationship. Everything will come down to the emotions she feels when shes with you.
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